07 June 2008

Here's the Situation...

Okay so the dude I met at a certain 'overrated yet still fun...sometimes' club in DC called me tonight. I havent talked to him in a minute. & when I say minute I mean 'wow you still have this number?' kind of minute. He talked all the usual bull and hinted that he wanted to see me basically so I was bored & didnt have anything else to do so I figured why not. I was supposed to either be there or call him by 11:45. So while all this was going on I was texting 'X' [remember him? From what Lu calls higher education?] and I kinda would rather have been with him but I dont want him thinking I am free every weekend even if i am. Anyway the club dude didnt answer the phone when I called at 11 something.

Straight to voicemail. So I left a message. A decent one....& then I texted 'X' to come over. Long story short...that didnt happen either because when he got here I was STILL IN A LONG SLOW ASS LINE AT TACO BELL!! On top of that 'club guy' calls me while I am in the line to tell me basically that I stood him up and didnt call him which is more of the normal bullshit from him. I know he got my damned message. He is one of those I am never wrong types.

Now to the point of this.

Should I feel bad for having 3 options [2 of which think I only talk to them] and hanging/going out with other people when I really like 'X' and he is the only 1 I really wanna talk to?

Im confused. Typing this out helped in my confusion.

10 comments:

Pretty.Hip said...

I don't think that there's anything wrong. I could see how you feel bad though. Sometimes I feel bad about my 'options', then I realize that I'm not in a relationship & my 'options' may have 'options' too!

Eb the Celeb said...

you should not feel bad at all.. do the damn thing girl... its obvious you cant rely on just one so having options keeps you sane

Jadore.Tokeyo said...

don't worry about it chica! we gotta do what we gotta do!!!

Ms. Jones said...

*coming through to the blog for the first time and love it* now concerning the topic at hand I don't think that you should feel bad, you are young and vibrant so options are not a bad thing because you aren't committed...have fun in the meantime :)

Brittni said...

Noooooo you shouldn't feel bad at all girl! That's guys problems these days, they think a female is supposed to say "how high" when they say "jump"...you're not in a relationship, so there's absolutely nothing wrong with keeping your options open...some guys just aren't used to having a girl that has her own mind and does her own thing, don't sweat em girl!

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

never feel bad for having options
just the long azz line at taco bell

Andre said...

Variety is the spice of life... So I say there's no ring on your finger, girl do you!

McLovin said...

bad for options? would a dude feel bad for options? as a dude i'm gonna answer no. it is what it is. ain't nobody got you on lockdown. i know i'm late lol

McLovin said...

and oh yea, i just remembered. it's all ok cause Taco Bell is the shit. i will take taco bell over late night booty call any-.... well almost anyday. taco bell never dissappoints lol.

ms.uncensored said...

hellllllllll...no. last summer me and the ex broke up and i was devastated. i really wanted him. but. a girl has to keep her options open to let that ((nigga)) know. he aint the one and only and u gonna do the damn thing. or if u wanna keep it to ya self thats cool too. but at least deep down u always got other options if ex falls through. thats my piece.


oh and hi. lol. =]